Guides: handwriting for parents, coloring for grown-ups
One question each, answered in plain words, with a page from the books where it helps. Written by the person who made them.
For parents
Is my child ready to write?
When do children learn to write letters?
Short answer: First capital letters between 3 and 5, after scribbles, lines and shapes. Lowercase letters and numbers between 4 and 6.
Pre-writing strokes: the lines a child draws before letters
Short answer: Six strokes make every capital: down, across, round, slant, curve back, zigzag. Practise each with a dot, a direction and a stop.
How do I teach it at home?
How to teach a preschooler to write letters
Short answer: Grip, lines, shapes, then capitals in stroke order with a start dot and arrows, in rows that fade to blank. Five to ten minutes a day.
How to teach a child to write their name
Short answer: Recognise it, trace it, copy it, write it alone. First name only, and from MAYA to Maya once the lowercase letters come.
Name recognition activities for preschoolers
Short answer: Put the name everywhere, then make it something to find: a name hunt, a name puzzle, the name among three others. Its first letter usually comes first.
Am I doing it the right way?
Uppercase or lowercase first? What the evidence says
Short answer: Capitals first for writing at 3 or 4: simpler strokes, one start line, fewer reversals. Lowercase first for reading.
Is tracing good for learning to write?
Short answer: Yes, as a first step. Tracing teaches the movement, not the memory. The row should fade: traced, dotted, faint, blank.
Is a personalised book worth giving?
Personalised books for children: what they do, and when they help
Short answer: Children love them, and small studies found some learning gains. One helps when the name is used for something, it is read together, and it is one of many.
Do personalised books help children learn to read?
Short answer: Possibly, a little. Small studies found more new words and talk with personalised print books; others found none. Every study was read with an adult.
What do I write in it, and when do I order?
What to write in a book for a child: dedication ideas by age
Short answer: Their name, your name, the date and one line about them or the book. Short enough to read aloud, and written to the child, not to their parents.
A personalised book from Sinterklaas
Short answer: A book about the child suits a Sint who knows everything. Let the Sint write the dedication, order early in November, and have it delivered to you.
Which coloring book for a 3 year old?
How to choose a coloring book for a 3 year old
Short answer: Look inside: one big thing a page, lines that survive a crayon, no space narrower than a crayon, blank backs, and an age band that starts at three.
Coloring gifts for a 3 year old: a book, crayons and what else to put with them
Short answer: A book with one big picture a page and blank backs, chunky crayons with a non-toxic seal, broad washable markers if any, and a tray or folder.
One coloring book for a 3 year old and a 6 year old
Short answer: Use one book with easy pages and fuller ones, give each child their own page side by side, and give the older one a job: choosing, helping or reading.
How does coloring grow from 3 to 6?
When do toddlers start coloring? Scribbles, grip and the first real page
Short answer: Scribbling starts at about 15 months, with a fist. Controlled marks come at 2 to 3, and coloring a picture on purpose at about 3 to 4.
Coloring inside the lines: when it comes, and whether to ask for it
Short answer: Usually between 3 and 5. Do not ask for it or correct it: praise the effort, and give the child big spaces and lines thick enough to find.
How to help a toddler learn to color, without taking the crayon
Short answer: Give one crayon and one big shape, color beside them, fill one part at a time, talk about what they do, and stop while it is still fun.
Is coloring good for fine motor skills? What the evidence says
Short answer: Probably a little, as one hand activity among many. Programmes that practise hand skills help; no good trial shows coloring beats drawing or play.
Crayons or markers?
Markers for a 3 year old: what age, which tip, and the page behind
Short answer: Once a child stops putting things in their mouth: broad washable markers with ventilated caps and a non-toxic seal, on a single-sided page.
How do I get twenty quiet minutes without a screen?
Quiet time without a screen: coloring a 3 year old will finish
Short answer: Set it up before you need it, give one page they can finish, sit with them for the first minutes, and stop while it is still going well.
Coloring at a restaurant or on a plane: what to pack for a toddler
Short answer: A few big simple pages, four chunky triangular crayons and something firm to lean on, kept in the bag and brought out only when the wait begins.
Free printable coloring pages for 3 year olds, and how to print them
Short answer: Choose pages with one big subject and thick lines, print them at actual size in black on plain paper, and use heavier paper if markers come out.
Deciding which book to buy? Eight letter tracing books, compared on the same seven criteria.
Compare letter tracing booksFor colorists
Which coloring book should I choose?
What is a bold and easy coloring book?
Short answer: Thick outlines, big open spaces, one subject a page, single-sided pages, a real count of designs and an effort order you can see.
Coloring book gifts for adults: how to pick one they will finish
Short answer: Check what they own, pick pages they can finish in an evening, single sided if they use markers, and add a small set of pens or pencils.
Will my markers work on it?
The best markers for bold and easy coloring books
Short answer: A broad brush or chisel nib for the big spaces, a fine tip for the small ones. Alcohol ink fills evenly but goes through paper, so put a sheet behind the page.
Why markers bleed through a coloring book, and what stops it
Short answer: Slip a sheet behind the page, color on single-sided pages, test the marker first, use a light hand and let each layer dry. Alcohol ink goes through most paper.
Which colors go together?
Color palette ideas for coloring books: twelve cozy ones
Short answer: Choose four or five colors: one warm accent, a light and a dark of one hue, and some white left bare. Twelve palettes, from cocoa and cream to a winter cabin.
When and why do grown-ups color?
Coloring before bed instead of the phone
Short answer: Leave the phone in another room, set out one page you can finish and a small set of pens under a lamp, and stop when the page is done.